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The crazy Colombian has gone truly crazy! We are supposed to be on a blog about getting the life we want, and he wants to talk about team building?
Yes my dear readers, I want to talk about how to build a great team, and I will use the video above as a starting point. The two key points I want to explore today are
- Why bother building a great team, and
- How to go about it
And don’t worry; I am not going to suggest you go on some stupid team-building exercise that uses motivational techniques usually reserved for fit members of the army. Nor will I ask you to partake on goofy exercise that require you to use ropes, nails, martial arts, paint, hot embers or a goldfish (and if you don’t know what I am talking about, you are obviously one of the few lucky ones who has never been sent on a company day off-site to be the victim of so-called team-building experts (in which case you will probably smile when you watch with this video in Youtube)
But back to the topic: Why should you care about building a great team? And how do you go about it?
You should build a great team around you because you can’t go through life alone
Let’s first define team. There are 3 reasons why you should have a great team around you
- Because there aren’t enough hours in the day for you to do everything yourself
- Nor are there enough hours in your week to do everything you have on your plate right now
- Bur most importantly because you don’t have enough hours in your life to learn every possible skill you will need to live the The life you were born to live
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But you already knew this, didn’t you? Otherwise, why do you have an accountant, paid cleaners, nannies /daycare, a doctor, or any of the other myriad of professionals you pay hard-earned money to provide services to you?
Most people fail to realise that there are a lot of teams around them. Almost everyone builds teams around them by accident, and fail to realise that it is entirely within their capacity to build, shape, and re-shape those teams. Work colleagues, families, professional organisations, companies we buy from; they are all part of your Life team. So don’t make the mistake everyone makes, and relinquish the power (and responsibility) to carefully construct the best possible team around you. When choosing a new team member (be it a friend, husband, or accountant), be very clear on why you want them to be a part of your team.
Follow this simple piece of advise, and you will be on the way to achieving unimagined levels of efficiency, effectiveness and happiness. And that is the reason why you should care about building a great team.
How to build a great team
There are 3 fundamental steps for building a great team:
- Have a goal in mind. Stephen Covey
has previously said that the first habit of highly effective people
is to start with the end in mind. So figure out what type of life you want, and turn this desire into a SMART goal.
- Identify the help you will need. Once you know where you want to go, find out what you can (and should) do by yourself, and what you should (or could) get help from professionals. Be creative in this step, and keep yourself honest; Continuously remind yourself that just because you can do something doesn’t mean that you should do it (Don’t believe me? Answer this question: can you drive your car off a cliff? Should you? There you go!)
- Find the best person to help you. The last step is then to find new team members for each of the things you decided you need to get done, but you can’t (or will not) do yourself. It is critical in this step that you look for the best person for the job, given all of your constraints (time, money, location, etc). Remember that finding the best person for the job is a very different thing than finding the perfect person for that job (Hint: Sometimes the price of excellence is accepting imperfection)
Parting thoughts on the video of this month
Before I go, I want to share with you a few quotes from the video above. I hope they will make you think:
- On what being part of a great team is all about:
If you want to settle old scores, you’re on the wrong team. We move forward, starting right now. We start becoming a great team, right now! … Skating, Flow, creativity, that’s what this team is all about, not old rivalries
- On perseverance under duress:
What the hell is wrong with you? Put your gear on. I said, put your gear on. ‘But the doctor told me I can’t play’. Yeah, Yeah, you got a bad bruise. You know what? Put your street clothes on, because I have no time for quitters. ‘Come on Herb, nobody is quitting here’
- On the importance of hard work (Einstein: Genius is 1% inspiration and 99% perspiration):
Do you want to win on talent alone? Gentlemen, you don’t have anough talent to win on talent alone. Try again!
- On having the courage to stand out and be uncommon:
Hey, where are you going? Back on the line. This can not be a team of common men, because common men go nowhere. You have to be uncommon.
- On the importance of clearly defining what’s the team you’re playing for:
I play for Massachusets.
Who do you play for?
I play for the United States of America
That’s all gentlemen
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Dear Crazy Colombian,
If you want my honest opinion, I would have hated to have Herb as my coach! His way of training is just the same as the one used in schools a hundred years ago. Instead of striking the students with a ruler, Herb strikes his players with harsh words! I think an effective teacher or coach should give encouragement instead of inflicting fear or anger. Learning should be a joyful process.
I am a pianist, and once I compared my own learning process with a Russian colleague, who told me that since she was three she was forced to study several hours a day, just because she had talent. In my case, I did the same joyfully, just because I loved it. And nowadays she still suffers with her piano, because it is what she was taught to do, whereas I still love sitting down to play, because I still love to !
LV
DIEGO’S RESPONSE:
Thank you so much for visiting and leaving a comment to our article; we love using the comments section to enable a constructive dialogue or debate on the topic previously written about.
Whilst I agree with your comments about Herb’s training methods, I disagree with what appears on the surface as an extreme opinion. Master teachers adapt their teaching style to the needs, skills and emotional strength of the student. Because no one likes stepping out of his comfort zone, achieving excellence and greatness is very hard to do. In order to overcome their intrinsic obstacles, students some times need harsh words. The secret to the madness, as usual, lies in balance. Balancing encouragement and vision with tough demands and brutal honesty will usually lead to higher performance in any areas of your life than the currently accepted wisdom of ‘only provide positive feedback’. I recently attended a leadership course where they taught me the FOCR method of giving feedback to correct underperformance: You first outline the Facts; Explain the Outcomes; Highlight the Consequences of acting in that way, and provide Recommendations on how to do things differently in the future. This is an incredibly effective method for raising performance, and can (and should) be used by teachers and coaches alike.
Whilst I understand you might not have wanted to be one of Herb’s students, I encourage you to think the following: If your dream as a kid had been to become the best Hockey player in the United States, would have you CHOSEN to work with Herb, or with one of the hundreds of coaches who did not help their teams achieve greatness? Before you answer that question, I encourage you to read the best-seller Way of the Peaceful Warrior by Dan Millman